Tag: Favorite List

  • My 9 Favorite Queer Books Read in 2023

    My 9 Favorite Queer Books Read in 2023

    From graphic novels to epic fantasies to novella memoirs, the LGBTQ+ books that I read and loved the most this year cover a fairly broad range of genre and emotional intensity.

    My 9 Favorite Queer Books Read in 2023

    At the Feet of the Sun by Victoria Goddard. A compulsive doorstopper of a novel that takes everything from the first book of this series (helpful to read first but not strictly necessary) and elevates it. Read if you would like to read a middle-aged m/m asexual romance in a fantasy setting that is squee-worthily cute.

    Imogen, Obviously by Becky Albertalli. A sweet YA contemporary fiction for all my girlies who needed time to realize their queerness due to compulsive heterosexuality and an experience of attraction that doesn’t match what’s typically talked about. Read if you want to catch college feelings and enjoy a f/f romance bloom amongst amazing friendships.

    That Summer Feeling by Bridget Morrissey. If the above description sounded great but you’d rather read an adult romance, this is the book for you! Read if you want to relive summer camp experiences from an adult perspective with a f/f romance.

    Heathen by Natasha Alterici. A graphic novel with beautiful artwork telling a Viking story with a queer female lead? Um, obviously it’s very good. Read if you love Norse mythology and gender-swapped hero journeys.

    The Sun and the Star: A Nico di Angelo Adventure by Rick Riordan and Mark Oshiro. I will apparently never stop loving Nico di Angelo in any of the Percy Jackson books, and this YA novel that focuses on him and his boyfriend descending into Hades and Tartarus is no exception. Read if you love an established couple m/m romance combined with modernized Greek mythology.

    Babel by R. F. Kuang. A doorstopper for revolutionary word nerds, this gorgeously written alternate history novel addresses heavy themes of colonization, translation, and racism within an increasingly compelling plot. Read if you want to think deeply about nuanced forms of oppression.

    Spoiler Alert: The Hero Dies by Michael Ausiello. A m/m romantic tragedy memoir that manages to be a story about a couple dealing with cancer that avoids trauma-porn sentimentality. Read if you want to laugh-cry your way through love, life, and death.

    Like a Love Story by Abdi Nazemian. A YA historical fiction set in late 1980s NYC, this novel follows three teens dealing with m/m love, the AIDS crisis, and activism. Read if you want to see the recent past with a fresh perspective.

    Peter Darling by Austin Chant. A sequel to Peter Pan that leans into deliciously fanfic-y territory by queerifying its characters (Peter is a trans man) and giving us the Pan/Hook romance I didn’t know I wanted. Read if you want to experience the magic of Peter Pan through a queer lens.


    What were some of your favorite books read in 2023? Leave a comment to let me know, and I’ll work on reading them in 2024!

    Check out our Queer Lil Library for more book recommendations and reviews!

  • 22 Horror TTRPGs for the Spooky Season

    22 Horror TTRPGs for the Spooky Season

    This fall, confront the horror within and without with these horror and/or spooky TTRPGs! Alex V. compiled this list of 22 TTRPGs, most by queer creators or with queer themes. Let us know in the comments which ones you love, and tell us about any that we missed!

    General TTRPGs


    GMless


    Two People


    Solo


  • 18 Queer TTRPGs to Buy and Play Today

    18 Queer TTRPGs to Buy and Play Today

    Pride month may have concluded, but you know what hasn’t? Our love of queer creators and the TTRPGs that they make! Alex V. and Robyn Choi compiled this list of 18 TTRPGs by queer creators or with queer themes. Let us know in the comments which ones you love, and tell us about any that we missed!

    General TTRPGs


    GMless


    Two People


    Solo


    Bonus: Coming Soon!

    At the time of posting, the following games had been funded but not published. They look amazing, though, so keep them on your radar!

  • My Favorite Books Read in 2022

    My Favorite Books Read in 2022

    From graphic novels to epic fantasies to novella memoirs, the LGBTQ+ books that I read and loved the most this year cover a fairly broad range of genre and emotional intensity.

    My Favorite Books Read in 2022

    Snapdragon by Kat Leyh. This middle grade graphic novel became a fast favorite because of its intergenerational friendship, its love of the unlovable animals, and its sweet queer representation.

    People Change by Vivek Shraya. Everything Shraya writes gets right inside my head, and this novella about shifting identities over time, from a trans perspective but not only a trans perspective, has continued to pop up in my mind months later.

    She Who Became the Sun by Shelley Parker-Chan. A decade-spanning epic historical fantasy set in China that explores gender and sexuality divorced from our modern understanding and labels, this is an absolute must read.

    The Heart-Break Bakery by A. R. Capetta. This one snuck up on me, but it’s a pure and sugary good time with a lot of diverse queer representation that I don’t often see in books.

    Thirsty Mermaids by Kat Leyh. With two recommendations on this list, you can bet that Leyh’s future works are on my radar; this one is a delightful “fish out of water” mermaid story that celebrates body positivity and found family.

    The Clothesline Swing by Danny Ramadan. A darkly hopeful book about war, trauma, refugees, and the love that can help us survive, this is a book that has fundamentally shaped my worldview.

    Loveless by Alice Oseman. While this is definitely a very fun read, it makes the list for its stellar representation of a young girl wrestling with understanding and accepting her aromantic asexual identity, which I don’t see enough of!

    A Prayer for the Crown-Shy by Becky Chambers. The sequel to Chambers’ first Monk & Robot novella, I liked this one even more as the duo enter human civilization and I get to see Mosscap’s reaction to satchels and money and babies.

    Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters. We are entering the age of the Messy Queer, and this book is prime evidence of why it’s so important to show trans and queer people as fully realized humans.

    The Lesbiana’s Guide to Catholic School by Sonora Reyes. This is YA at its best, using the genre to explore the intersection of class, race, sexuality, immigration, and more.


    What were some of your favorite books read in 2022? Leave a comment to let me know, and I’ll work on reading them in 2023!

    Check out our Queer Lil Library for more book recommendations and reviews!

  • My 8 Favorite Board Games

    My 8 Favorite Board Games

    I did not always love board games (the one that I did love was Life – that spinner! the tiny people pegs!), but I have consistently become friends with people who love them. I first warmed to card games when my Midwestern friends hosted euchre tournaments during weekend getaways. Over the years, I slowly got into table top games with Ticket to Ride and Settlers of Cataan. Now, I have become full-fledged board game geek, a title that is bestowed when one voluntarily plays a game for 13 hours (see Twilight Imperium below).

    I pride myself on having a diverse board game palate. I want to have games that appeal to different kinds of people, from the silly to the serious and the short to the long. If you are looking for a new game to play, these table top games are ones that I can personally vouch for!

    I want to acknowledge that board games can be expensive.  If you don’t think you’re ready to invest in a board game, you can still enjoy them!  You can borrow a game from a friend, check out a board game from the library, or head out to a cafe or pub that allows you to play a huge variety of games while eating and drinking.  (If you’re in the Vancouver area, I recommend Storm Crow Alehouse or Pizzeria Ludica during non-COVID times.)

    5 Minute Dungeon

    5-Minute Dungeon (2-5 players, 25 minute gameplay)
    5-Minute Dungeon is an excellent game to start the evening.  Each round literally lasts five minutes, so it’s a quick and chaotic cooperative way to get in the gaming mood with your friends.  Using D&D archetypes such as rogue, wizard, or barbarian, you have the option of choosing from five character cards (male or female on either side, equaling ten option in total) to team up and defeat five increasingly difficult boss battles.  The gameplay is simple, as you and your teammates match icons from your hand to defeat a series of monsters and obstacles, and the five minute time limit guarantees that you will be laughing and screaming in an attempt to be victorious in time.

    Unstable Unicorns

    Unstable Unicorns (2-8 players, 30-45 minute gameplay) 
    Unstable Unicorns is an adorably designed game of killer unicorns with hilarious names and powers (Americorn!  Stabby the Unicorn!) that combines strategy and ruthlessness with seriously, just the cutest illustrations ever.  Build up your stable of unicorns (as well as narwhals, the unicorns of the sea) and try to destroy the unicorns of other players.  It is a simple system with the potential for a lot of clever gameplay.

    Quelf

    Quelf (3-8 players, 1-2 hour gameplay)
    Quelf is my favorite party game, and I have historically described it as “if you are willing to look ridiculous for 30 seconds, you get to watch your friends look ridiculous too.”  It is out and out bonkers, as you move along the track by miming falling down an elevator or scouring your kitchen for materials to make a scuba mask that must be worn for the remainder of the game.  Sometimes you lose points if you forget to bark at someone entering the room.  It’s the silliest thing I’ve ever voluntarily done on repeat, and it never gets old.

    Munchkin

    Munchkin (3-6 players, 1-2 hour gameplay)
    Munchkin is a card-based strategy game wherein you strengthen your character with loot like the Kneepads of Sexiness and fight monsters, racing to level 10 before any of your competitors.  It’s a lot of fun that never gets old, because holy cow, there are so many expansions.  You can work your way through Adventure Time scenarios or Cthulhu horrors or dinosaurs.  This game has a fairly simple conceit, but it’s heightened with creative twists like giving monsters additional hit points for every drink that’s on the table.

    Eldtrich Horror

    Eldritch Horror (1-8 players, 2-4 hour gameplay)
    Eldritch Horror is one of the most complicated, most difficult games I’ve ever played.  In fact, in the three times I’ve played this with groups of experienced gamers, I have never once won.  Yet this only makes me want to try again!  A cooperative game based on H.P. Lovecraft’s novels, you and your friends race to find clues and defeat horrors appearing through rifts all over the world before your health and sanity disappear.  It requires strategy, flexibility, and the willingness to mourn the takeover of planet earth after hours of attempting to prevent the apocalypse.  Defeat was never so fun.

    Arkham Horror Card Game

    Arkham Horror: The Card Game (1-4 players, 1-2 hour gameplay)
    If you’re not a fan of board games that require hundreds of game pieces, switch over to Arkham Horror: the Card Game, which adds role-play to the original concept of partners uniting to defeat otherworldly horrors before you lose all health and sanity.  The card setup is unique, and the scenarios allow you to fail but continue moving forward so long as you note your “two mental traumas” in the gameplay notebook.  Again, this is a game designed to be almost impossible, which should be obvious by the rule that states, “If you are unsure how to apply a rule, choose the option that causes the most pain to your characters.”  So hard!  So fun!

    Terraforming Mars

    Terraforming Mars (1-5 players, 1-2 hour gameplay)
    Terraforming Mars a perfect game for one or two people who want to strategize and create a long term plan, stacking resources and implementing opportunities at just the right moment.  This game wins extra points for feeling like you’re really terraforming Mars.  Points are earned as you raise the temperature and oxygen levels, and you have access to developing microbes and searching for life before opportunities to plan grass ever come along.  An incredibly nerdy and delightful game.

    Twilight Imperium

    Twilight Imperium (3-6 players, 4-8 hour playtime)
    The game of all games.  I first played Twilight Imperium in a group of six, and we played for thirteen hours.  It is a testament to this game that we played again within a month, and the second time breezed by in a quick seven hours.  This complex game somehow manages to never feel QUITE too complicated, though I cannot imagine trying to play without at least one player who has experience.  In this race to conquer the galaxy (which you create with tiles, guaranteeing a new game every time), you can lean into technology, war, trade, or diplomacy to earn victory points and become undisputed champion of table top gaming. (Check out my review here.)